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  • author ( 35, woman | Northridge, CA, USA )

    Go out get a bite to eat. Talk and get to know one another more in person. Then maybe go somewhere where we can talk more. Maybe walk around and talk.

  • author ( 36, woman | Hollywood, FL, USA )

    Coffee. Let's face it, we don't click with everyone we meet and it is better to pick a date that can be short than one you are too tipsy to leave.

  • author ( 34, man | Fort Lauderdale, FL, USA )

    Anything fun, where the conversation and witty banter flow effortlessly and we both cannot wait to see each other again is perfect in my book!

  • author ( 39, woman | Cleveland, OH, USA )

    Lunch or dinner. Food is the best social lubricant. I am a little bit of a foodie. I'm hoping you feel similarly :)

  • author ( 32, man | New York, NY, USA )

    I think you can tell a lot about a person by what they read, so probably a quick meal and a trip to a bookstore to browse

  • author ( 36, man | Pittsburgh, PA, USA )

    For a first date, it's important to see sparks, but to talk and enjoy the conversation. You know it has potential, within minutes usually. Looking for the Sparks and storybook ending, tired of bs.

  • author ( 34, woman | Springfield, IL, USA )

    The perfect first date would be with a guy I've never met before, yet feels like I've known him forever.

  • author ( 35, man | Houston, TX, USA )

    Drinks while dressed up formally. I like an atmosphere where we can both put our best faces out there but without the pressure of a long date.

  • author ( 36, man | East Haddam, CT, USA )

    I enjoy just talking and getting to know her. Try to keep it fun and light, see if there is a mutual spark and potentially a second date.

  • author ( 32, woman | Rego Park, NY, USA )

    No preference. Dinner or drinks is a great way to break the ice, but I'm open to something more adventurous.

  • author ( 37, man | Jerusalem, Yerushalayim, Israel )

    my ideal first date would be to meet and enjoy a nice walk somewhere and talk and get to know eachother

  • author ( 32, woman | Graz, Steiermark, Austria )

    Just talking and getting to know each other, being very respectful. For me the most important is to get to know a person before we start talking about marriage.

  • author ( 36, woman | Helotes, TX, USA )

    We can do lunch at Cappyccino's where there are good food and break the ice. And maybe we can hang out at the Quarry Market if things work out or dinner for next date.

  • author ( 34, woman | Ramat Gan, HaMerkaz, Israel )

    I do not make such a big deal of first dates...If i am having fun that is all that matters. The following dates are much more important

  • author ( 35, woman | Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa )

    I like getting to know someone first before I go out and do things with them, so I would like to sit and have coffee with them anywhere where it is beautiful and tranquil